The "Perfect" Christmas Present
By Brenda Hyde
Each year as a parent I worry that I may not impart enough of the true
spirit of Christmas to my children. I want to make sure they have a
magical, special holiday, but at the same time I want them to appreciate
the "giving" more than the "receiving". Last year I decided to ask
our
visitors at Seeds of Knowledge about their favorite Christmas gifts.
Perhaps,
if we look back to our own childhood holidays we will recall that it
wasn't
the "coolest" toy or the one that EVERYONE had that was the best, it
was
the gift that touched our hearts and made us feel important and
special.
My favorite gift as a child
was a beautiful bride doll.
I had seen this jewel of a lady in the store window after church one
day.My parents were not rich people.They were the average
American hardworking people.
And there were five other children besides me. So I did not really think
I would ever get that magnificent blonde
princess bride doll who wore
pearls and was at least 24" tall.The biggest doll I had ever seen that
was that beautiful. My parents Bob and Maxine always had made sure
Christmas was special but that year the factory was going on strike
right before Christmas.Of course we knew because my mom and dad gardened
and preserved all the vegetables and fruits that we would be ok on the
food.Dad always made sure the freezer was full of meat from hunting and
fishing but the house payment and insurance payments remained to be
paid..and if the factory went on strike then Christmas was just not
going to be very bright..it was ok because we knew they loved us no
matter what. Well Christmas morning arrived.The strike had been held
off.I was waiting to see what I would get. They gave me clothing as
always and the stocking filled with candy and nuts and fruit but there
was no doll.Not even one.My heart fell.I tried hard not to show it but I
couldn't look at anybody.I knew I would cry because I only 8yrs old and
I just didn't think I could live without that doll.
My dad started to clean up the wrapping and my older sisters were busy
chatting about their things.My brothers were taking off with their
things and I got up to take my things to my room and my dad said "come
here..there is one more present laying down here behind the tree.."
And there was that beautiful
princess doll.Even my older sisters stopped chatting to watch.The
miracle moment was mine .I will always remember that one day that I knew
my
miracle HAD to be there somewhere.~Lynn Moen
One of the best Christmases that I can remember was back in about 1943
or 1944. My maternal Grandmother made my sister and me a rag doll and my
Father made us doll beds to go with them. Mine was pink and my sister's
was blue. She got the boy doll and I got the girl doll. I still remember
those dolls and beds. We had them for years and I wish that they didn't
disappear when I was in my teens. They would have been treasured now
that both my Grandmother has been gone since the early 60's and my
Father has been gone since 71.~Beverly
I have to say that my favorite gift was my first
two wheel bike. It was made
by Schwinn. Why my favorite?
Well, my parents were blue
collar and didn't have alot
of money as most families
back then. I have 2 sisters
and we all got bikes that
year. I know my parents
really outdid themselves by
purchasing those bikes for us
along with the other gifts we
received. I will never forget
that Christmas. My dad came
into our rooms and woke us
up...guess he was pretty
excited to be able to do that
for us too. ~Dee
when I was about 9 my aunt died in the fall and for Christmas that year
I was given her lovely silver hair brush.
I still have it today and it holds dear memories for me ~Tony
My favorite gift as a child was a baby Crissy doll-not so much the doll
but the box I opened that had clothes made by hand by my grandmother and
2 baby quilts. I always loved looking at her quilts and there was
always a story to go with them. I kept those quilts over the
years-brought my daughter home in one of them and now she uses them with
her dolls and I tell a story with them!! ~Lisa
My most favorite Christmas gift was a stereo complete with an 8-track
player. I must have been about 10 years old and was really into music.
Well, what made this gift even more wonderful was the fact that I didn't
expect it...I did ask for it, but my parents were going through extreme
financial problems at that time so I just never expected to get it.
Knowing how hard it was for them to buy this made the gift even more
special...and I still treasure it to this day.
Brandie Valenzuela
When I was 10 I spent weeks going thru all our Sears and Montgomery Ward
and Spiegel Christmas catalogs, marking the items (mostly toys) I
wanted. Being a typical 10 yr old, oblivious to family financial
circumstances, I expected to get at least some of the stuff I wanted.
Well, that didn't happen. On Christmas morning I opened one package
after another of underwear, nightgowns, socks...I was very disappointed.
Then I opened a package and found something totally unexpected (and not
on my catalog wishlist)...it was a huge box of colored pencils and
dozens of very nice color-by-number prints. I had so much fun with that
one gift...it kept me busy for months. And I'm sure I would not, after
ALL these years, still remember any of those things I thought I wanted
from the Sears catalog.~Jill
Hummel red head. I got my first on when I was 9 I still have it an
started collecting more. The figurine was so beautiful that I will
always remember opening the box and realizing that my mother thought
that I was old enough to have a special collectible like that. I
remember feeling really special and respected from my parents.
~Bonnie
When I was 10 my grandmother knitted a blanket for me. It was beautiful
blue and white and it was so warm. She said everytime you use this it
will remind you of me and pop keeping you safe and warm (and it always
did remind me of them). Well believe it or not I had that blanket for 24
years and it kept me warm and safe for all those years.
~Janet Spaziani
When I was small, I contracted pneumonia right before Christmas, or
right at Christmas...anyway I was in the hospital and didn't get out til
around February, and my family kept the tree up, and all the
decorations, and we had Christmas when I got home.
That's a memory I'll always treasure.
~Kathleen
When I was in kindergarten, I loved to work at the easel. I loved
painting and fingerpaints, and pastel crayons. The teacher had a really
hard time pulling me away from there! Well, my teacher must have told
my mom how much I loved working at the easel without my knowing it.
When I came downstairs on Christmas morning, there was an easel of my
own there in the middle of the floor. there were pretty boxes filled
with paintbrushes and watercolors, a huge box of crayons, pastel
pencils, and fingerpaints. My mom had even sewn me my own painters
smock and it was hanging on the easel. All of this had a big red bow on
top. It was the best Christmas present I ever got and I spent all day
"playing" with it!
~Eileen
my favourite gift was a baby blue poncho that a friend of the family had
knitted for my sister and me. I loved that poncho and felt very grown up
wearing it (to me a grown up was about 18, I was 8 at the time). my mom
said I wore that poncho almost the entire school term. ~Sharon
I received my favourite Christmas gift when I was about 8 years old. As
the oldest of 5 children, I was accustomed to sharing everything. The
gifts we tended to receive were ones in which the girls all shared
equally. This year was the first in which there were packages under the
Christmas tree addressed to each of us individually. I could barely
contain my excitement as the day approached. That morning, my brothers
and sisters and I awoke at the crack of dawn to sort the packages in
readiness for our parents and our grandmother to witness. The youngest
took their turns first so I was practically bursting with anticipation
when the time came for me to see what was left under the tree for me. I
gently peeled the tape from the patterned paper to reveal a pad of
coloured construction paper and a set of pencil crayons! This was more
than what I had hoped for. I knew I would not be able to begrudge my
siblings the use of these items but the creative possibilities these
items represented overwhelmed my overactive imagination.
That particular gift seems like such a trifle compared to what I have
received and, indeed, purchased for myself, since, but I don't the hours
of joy derived from that present has been surpassed. ~Ginny
My favorite gift was a doll that I received when I was about 7 or 8.
Well, it wasn't exactly the doll, though I loved her very much... it was
the wardrobe she came with. My mom had sewn matching outfits for my
doll - one's that matched mine, even my school uniform!!
It was so much fun to have a doll that could "match" me. She also had
these little record things that you put into her side to make her talk.
I believe she is one of the dolls my mom stole from me and still has put
away (though she won't admit it!!) ~Shannon
My parakeet, Happy,was the last present that I got from my dad before he
passed away. But, thanks to that little bird, my father lived on for a
long time, until I could cope with having lost him. ~Gramma
A rocking chair, given to me by my parents the year my brother (age 9)
died of an accidental gun shot wound (I was 12). This chair has grown
up with me, traveled with me, was the one that I rocked (and still do),
my two young children (ages 2 and 4). I hope someday to give it to my
daughter for her children and always remember my brother and parents
every time I use it. ~Deana
I was given a cloth angel made by my aunt from pieces of a quilt my
grandmother had made long ago.
I like it because it reminds me of my grandmother who is no longer with
us and brings to mind a picture of her making quilts on her treadle
sewing machine.~Vicki
My favorite gift is an odd one for a child. My grandmother had six
children, and all but one grew up to have 3 or more children. So, we
always had large family get-togethers at Christmas. My grandmother was
very skilled at knitting and crocheting, and she would make warm woolen
slippers for all the adult women and the girls 12 years old or over.
Each year I yearned for a pair of the slippers, but always got some
dimes taped to a card. Just not the same to me. Finally, the Christmas
after I turned 12, I received the long awaited knitted slippers! Oh,
how I loved them and wore them everyday. Eventually of course, I wore a
hole in the bottom. Sadly, that was the last Christmas to share with my
grandmother as she suddenly died the following spring. I will never,
ever forget the gift of the homemade slippers from my grandmother.
~Debbie